The dark nature of why you still struggle with dating, friendships, and having social confidence

The dark nature of why you still struggle with dating, friendships, and having social confidence

The dark nature of why you still struggle with dating, friendships, and having social confidenceShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 28/01/2026

A lot of men who struggle to date women, build friendships, or expand their social circle aren’t: • Lazy • Incapable. • Or lack strategy. They’re still living in denial about what they went through growing up. Bullying...

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The reason you struggle to connect with people

The reason you struggle to connect with people

The reason you struggle to connect with peopleShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 30/06/2025

For a huge chunk of my 20s, I didn’t realize how much I was contracting my energy. I was obsessed with optimizing my habits, protecting my focus, and staying in my own lane… which, on the surface, looked like discipline. But under the surface?...

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I Spilt Water On A Woman At An EDM Show

I Spilt Water On A Woman At An EDM Show

I Spilt Water On A Woman At An EDM ShowShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 09/10/2024

I had an interesting incident at an EDM show a while back. I was reflecting on it this week and I wanted to share it to you. I went out with a new group of friends I made. We're all dancing, enjoying ourselves when I dropped my soda water on the...

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